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//We Crave Contentment

We Crave Contentment
November 22, 2009
Pastor Jon Hand
Philippians 2:1-11

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Go Deeper:
Use these questions within your Community Group to provoke further thought and reflection on this morning’s talk.

We Crave Contentment- Philippians 2:1-11

There are more idols in the world than there are realities (things that are real) - Friedrich Nietzsche.

What is an idol? The human heart takes good things like a successful career, love, material possessions, even family, and turns them into ultimate things. Our hearts deify them as the center of our lives, because, we think, they can give us significance and security, safety and fulfillment, if we attain them. - Tim Killer, Counterfeit Gods.

There is a “strange melancholy that haunts the inhabitants . . .in the midst of abundance… the incomplete joys of this world will never satisfy the human heart” - Alexis de Tocqueville, said of America in his 1830s visit to our country.

Getting Started

What is one thing you’ve always wanted in your life but it hasn’t happened yet?

From THE BOOK

Read Philippians 4:5-13 first. Remember Paul is rotting in jail, unjustly accused, as he wrote these words.

Now read 2:1-4. If 2:5-11 is true, what does the passage say it will do in our lives?

  1. What is Paul’s basis for telling the early Jesus followers not to be anxious?
  2. Why do you think he said “the peace of God that transcends understanding”? Have you had an experience with that kind of peace?
  3. Paul paints a picture of what to think on in verse 8. How is this different from just positive thinking? What is Paul’s basis for seeing the world through this lens? Idols always leave us discontent. What is your default attitude when your discontent, or disappointed, when people don’t meet your expectation?
  4. Read vs. 11-13. What is his secret to being content regardless of the circumstances? Vs. 13.Why do you think being content takes strength?
  5. Our hearts are always making idols or god substitutes. What are some of the idols behind discontentment?

Our Response

  • What is the difference between being content and being satisfied?
  • What does it look like for you to be content?
  • What is the connection between contentedness and gratitude?

Homework - Think through the list of question in the bulletin called Identify your idols. Talk with someone you trust about one of your idols and how it manifests in your life. Admit your idol to God and invite him to fill that longing with a focus and trust in what Jesus does for us.

//We Crave Significance

We Crave Significance
November 15, 2009
Pastor Jon Hand
Philippians 2:12 - 30

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Go Deeper: Counterfeit Gods: The Empty Promises of Money, Sex, and Power, and the Only Hope That Matters - Tim Keller

This book is all about what we as humans crave deep down. We crave security, peace, approval, our time, productivity, or success. You name it. We crave it. These cravings are mostly good. What’s bad is when we make these desires the ultimate reason for why we do what we do. The bible calls this idolatry. Idolatry is when we make a good thing the ultimate thing in our lives that gives us meaning, happiness, security, peace, joy, or happiness. Keller calls these counterfeit gods. Keller says, “The counterfeit gods always leave you frustrated and empty.” This book is a call to identify our human cravings, reflect on what we are doing to satisfy those desires, and replace our counterfeit gods by trusting in a God whose love and beauty exposes our most precious idols as the fake substitutes they are.

//We Crave Love

We Crave Love
November 8, 2009
Pastor Jon Hand
Philippians 1:27 - 2:11

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Go Deeper: Counterfeit Gods: The Empty Promises of Money, Sex, and Power, and the Only Hope That Matters - Tim Keller

This book is all about what we as humans crave deep down. We crave security, peace, approval, our time, productivity, or success. You name it. We crave it. These cravings are mostly good. What’s bad is when we make these desires the ultimate reason for why we do what we do. The bible calls this idolatry. Idolatry is when we make a good thing the ultimate thing in our lives that gives us meaning, happiness, security, peace, joy, or happiness. Keller calls these counterfeit gods. Keller says, “The counterfeit gods always leave you frustrated and empty.” This book is a call to identify our human cravings, reflect on what we are doing to satisfy those desires, and replace our counterfeit gods by trusting in a God whose love and beauty exposes our most precious idols as the fake substitutes they are.

//Counterfeit God #1. Romance

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Right now I’m reading a book called Counterfeit Gods by a pastor named Tim Keller.  The book is based on the idea that we all have something or someone we hang out hopes on in this life to give us peace, security, hope, happiness, and relief.  We all feel restless and anxious and churn at times because we long for more from this life, but can’t seem to find it. Keller’s premise is that God is the only one who can fill the ache in our soul but we don’t always start there. So we fabricate meaning and hope or security and happiness in other things. Things he deems counterfeit gods.  We’ve always done this. Read your history, study the ancients. Deep in our collective human experience lies, well, lies.  Lies that we can find rest in almost any other place except in knowing and being known by our Creator.  So for the next several weeks or when it hits me, I will share some nuggets I’m collecting from the book. Maybe it will entice you to read it for yourself. I bought 12 copies of this book and will be giving it to key influencers and leaders at Engage. My hope is to spread this book like an idea virus through our community….if we take it to heart it will mean that Engage will continue to be a place that celebrates honesty about these parts of ourselves that go searching for life or salvation in everything else but God….I would love to have you comment and start some dialogue.  Check out the video teaser for the book. http://www.counterfeitgods.com/

page 39 - Speaking about our tendency to look for fulfilment in romance. No person, not even the best one, can give your soul all it needs. pg 40  The failure of romantic love as a solution to human problems is so much a part of modern man’s frustration…No human relationships can bear the burden of godhood….However much we may idealize or idolize him (or her, the love partner), he / she inevitably reflects earthly decay and imperfection….After all, what is it that we want when we elevate the love partner to this position? We want to be rid of our faults, of our feeling of nothingness. We want to be justified, to know our existence has not been in vain. We want redemption–nothing less. Needless to say, human partners cannot give this.

Keller at one point quotes C.S. Lewis about our human longings which nothing can satisfy:
Most people, if they have really learned to look into their own hearts, would know that they do want, and want acutely, something that cannot be had in this world. There are all sorts of things in this world that offer to give it to you, but they never quite keep their promise. The longings which arise in us when we first fall in love, or first think of some foreign country, or first take up some subject that excites us, are longings which no marriage, no travel, no learning, can really satisfy. . . There was something we have grasped at, in that first moment of longing, which just fades away in the reality. I think everyone knows what I mean. The wife may be a good wife, and the hotels and scenery may have been excellent, and chemistry maybe a very interesting job: but something has evaded us.

U2 was right. We still haven’t found what we are looking for….

jon

//We Crave Hope

We Crave Hope
November 1, 2009
Pastor Jon Hand
Philippians 1:12-26

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Look, part of being human beings means we have longings and cravings and desires that if filled we think make life worth living. These longings are good, but they can have a dark side when we try and satisfy those desires on things that ultimately leave us empty. Engage is starting a series called CRAVE. We crave experiences and meaning and value and hope yet we don’t always find fulfillment of those cravings in the one source or person who satisfies our soul. So how do we deal with the stuff and disappointments of life in light of our cravings? We are spending the month of November actually going through the book of Philippians. The book reveals that things aren’t going too well for Paul. In fact, he writes the book while incarcerated in a disease infested sewer system known as Mamertine Prison in ancient Rome. Yet somehow, even though life is not what he expected it to be, there is something to look forward to. Rotting in jail, Paul finds hope in someone beyond his circumstances. His hope stems from the promise of another world beyond this life that is better than we expect. The promise of hope gives us motivation to be a different kind of person even in circumstances we don’t want to be in.

We try earning hope.
Most of what we hope in fades with time.
Ultimately, lasting hope can only be found in knowing God.

Books: In a Pitt with A Lion on A Snowy Day: How To Survive and Thrive When Opportunity Roars - Mark Batterson. The hardest part of your life in the present or the most painful part of your past are opportunities that can become the most hopeful part of your future. This book will help you understand how to see the painful events of your present or past as crowning glories of hope for your future when we find ourselves pursuing Christ who turns pain into opportunities of hope. Read this book.